Friday 28 September 2012

Mother-in-laws and their wahala

How to get my mother in law to like me had been a big problem over the years until i discovered the following  tips, make sure u look them through and keep yourself updated as i keep u posted on the tips on a daily basis for some days.


1. Be Polite
One of the hardest parts of a negative relationship with your mother-in-law is keeping your mouth shut when she brings out the nitpicking, critical comments. Being polite is not the same as putting up with what is being done; you're still perfectly entitled to stand up for yourself, but it is about not stooping to the same level u get?.
now if u v a hard time being polite then go through the following

a. smile wen u introduce yourself

b.be friendly and halpful

c.be tolerant

d.mainatain good posture at all times

e.compliment people about their clothing with a smile, acting friendly goes a long way because u neva know when u wuld need a prticular friend ata particular time . so keep it real.

f. try to be very understaanding


2. just act like you like her
by doing this do not take yourself to be a pretender, just do it to maintain that relationship, plus you are martied to her child, so whats the worst that can happen?
Even if she is so difficult or different, you have to show to your spouse that you two can be good friends. That would make him/her feel comfortable and in case she dislikes you, he/she would never think it's because of something you have done or because you haven't tried to have a nice relationship with her


More tips coming to you subsequently , please feel free to leave your comments as to your opinions,contibutions and suggestions.thank you.

2 comments:

  1. its a good one r4r, please keep updating us asap

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